what kind of love do you feel?

This last week I learned about many different kinds of love.  I want to focus on three right now: passionate, compassionate, and companionate.  Passionate love is all about emotion.  It's physical, sexual, and romantic. This is the kind of love we see often times depicted in movies, music videos, and television.  Compassionate love is similar to passionate love but there's an added level of caring more deeply for that person.  And companionate love is more like a partnership and a friendship, it's more likely to be the longest lasting.  So what kind of love do you want to have and experience?  I think that there should be a balance between them.  I think that while companionate is going to last the longest, it's important to have that passion involved in marriage.  Passion is something that can help you connect to your spouse on a deeper level, it will keep you in love and your friendship will strengthen as well.  I'm not married yet and therefore cannot evaluate my own relationship with my husband.  But I hope it's one that contains passion and charity.  Think about your relationships... What kind of love are you experiencing?

is gender inherent? or can it be manufactured?

Some people believe that you can parent children a certain way and they will turn out differently than they would naturally.  Like, if you raise your son more like your daughters then he will be less aggressive and more mild mannered.  I however, do not believe this is valid. I think that little boys were built to be little rascals and there's nothing wrong with that!  They have almost instinctive ways about them that make them the way that they are.  Sure some boys are more timid than others, but that's ok too!  Likewise, little girls are naturally going to be more nurturing and caring because that's how God created them to be!  I think it's silly that some people or rather parents think that they should try to change God's perfect mold for his children.  Each of us have our own personalities, and different quirks about us, but we are all children of our Heavenly Father.  We were created the way we were for a reason.  We all have a divine purpose!  Let's rise to it and make every day count!

what's class got to do with it?

Have you ever thought about social class and how it may affect your family?  Well, you should, because it does!  I've learned that upper class families tend have more structured rules, less children, and may not be as close as a family.  Lower class families tend to have more children, and those children are more often than not unruly.  What determines social class?  Well, it's based on money of course, prestige or reputation, and education.  However, research shows that if you work together as a family like doing projects around the yard or house, you becomes closer and more tight knit verses if you were to go on a family vacation.  That's an interesting though isn't it?  But I think likewise, if a family is more lower-middle class and they work together to climb the ladder to upper-middle class I think this will cause the family to become closer as well.  In my own family, I would have to agree that when I do projects and things with them we have so much fun and are really able to connect with one another.  Family vacations are great don't get me wrong, but there's something about working together to reach a common goal that really bonds us together.  What do you think?  What connects you the best to your family?  And does class standing have anything to do with it?